YouTuber RelaxAlax sexually assaulted ex-girlfriend, emotionally abused & manipulated her as well as others

JMTHEFOX

Member
Oct 30, 2017
818
Brooklyn, NY
Unfollowed and blocked the fuck out of him on Twitter after reading this.

Glad I never subscribed to him on YouTube. He's on my shit list for life.
 
OP
OP
Neoxon

Neoxon

Community Resettler
Member
Oct 25, 2017
25,941
Houston, TX
So... He is innocent or what?
I wouldn't go that far. I mainly posted that to show that Alax did get legal advice on how to approach the whole ordeal, which would explain how we got the statement he made. There are too many accounts of fowl play on Alax's part to dismiss the allegations against him, to the point where the statement comes off as damage control.
 

Watchtower

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,029
From his response, dude sounds like he lawyered up, has a law background himself, or someone in his circle of friends or family does.
After doing some digging, you aren't wrong about Alax getting legal help.

For reference, Alex Scott is one of Alax's friends.
This was the first thing that came to mind when I read his response months ago. It's a perfectly boilerplate PR response, and that combined with the most-likely-deliberate content "freeze" actually pissed me off more than anything else. Because it shows that he's fully aware of the seriousness of the accusations and his first response is to defend himself and his Youtube channel rather than come clean.
 
OP
OP
Neoxon

Neoxon

Community Resettler
Member
Oct 25, 2017
25,941
Houston, TX
This was the first thing that came to mind when I read his response months ago. It's a perfectly boilerplate PR response, and that combined with the most-likely-deliberate content "freeze" actually pissed me off more than anything else. Because it shows that he's fully aware of the seriousness of the accusations and his first response is to defend himself and his Youtube channel rather than come clean.
You pretty much summed up my exact thoughts. The worst part is that most people on Twitter seem to have eaten it up.
 

Pancracio17

Avenger
Oct 29, 2017
7,060
Is he confirmed guilty? Ill probably completely disconnect from this when I click unfollow so it would be nice to know of there is still some doubt.
 

Goodstyle

Banned
Nov 1, 2017
1,164
User Banned (1 Month): Dismissing Sexual Assault with Baseless Speculation
I've got an insane theory about the sexual assault that happened. According to her, she's got zero (ZERO) recollection of any sexual contact between them that night, which even if you're drunk, you would have some. She called a sexual assault hotline and they said if she had zero memory, she must have been roofied. I think what happened was that he wanted to "punish" her for being drunk and play this weird psychological game, so he told her they had sex that night where he claims she asked for embarrassing and degrading sex acts that made him uncomfortable (all of which he asked her to do for him later on btw even though he said it made him feel bad), so he could teach her a "lesson" about her poor behaviour in his view. But my theory is that he didn't roofie her or engaged in sexual contact, he just lied to make her feel bad because that's 90% of what he did in the relationship according to her.

The thing is, Alex is a fucking moron, and he didn't realize he was basically admitting to date raping her. People don't have zero conscious memory of a thing like sex happening the night before unless they were drugged, and based on the way she described the night (they were arguing until at least 4am about her drinking), it really sounds like he just entirely made up the sex just to mess with her, but it backfired because he once again failed to think of her as a person and didn't think about how she'd react to having sex she didn't remember having, which means either he's a monster that drugged her before raping her, or he's a weird little creep that makes shit up in order to punish people. I'm betting he's the latter, but Alex is too obsessed with his image to admit to any of it. He really put himself in an unbelievably shitty position because he's so much of a sadistic asshole and a dipshit, that he tried to shame his own girlfriend with a lie about the kind of sex she wanted to have with him.
 
OP
OP
Neoxon

Neoxon

Community Resettler
Member
Oct 25, 2017
25,941
Houston, TX
Smash players at it again. lmao

Fuck that dude.
As mentioned earlier, I don’t like to condemn an entire community over the actions of a few. There are some legitimately great people within the Smash community. It’s just that there are also a handful of assholes like Alax.

Is he confirmed guilty? Ill probably completely disconnect from this when I click unfollow so it would be nice to know of there is still some doubt.
Unless Alax actually admits to the allegations like Chris Niosi did, we probably won’t know for sure. But given what we know now as well as how Alax handled it, I personally wouldn’t bet on his innocence.
 

Metal B

Member
Oct 27, 2017
1,247
As mentioned earlier, I don’t like to condemn an entire community over the actions of a few. There are some legitimately great people within the Smash community. It’s just that there are also a handful of assholes like Alax.
Smash Bros is the biggest fighting game and brings together many different fan-bases. Of course, you also will attract some questional and amazing people. This simple comes with the size.
 
Nov 23, 2017
3,014
I've got an insane theory about the sexual assault that happened. According to her, she's got zero (ZERO) recollection of any sexual contact between them that night, which even if you're drunk, you would have some. She called a sexual assault hotline and they said if she had zero memory, she must have been roofied. I think what happened was that he wanted to "punish" her for being drunk and play this weird psychological game, so he told her they had sex that night where he claims she asked for embarrassing and degrading sex acts that made him uncomfortable (all of which he asked her to do for him later on btw even though he said it made him feel bad), so he could teach her a "lesson" about her poor behaviour in his view. But my theory is that he didn't roofie her or engaged in sexual contact, he just lied to make her feel bad because that's 90% of what he did in the relationship according to her.

The thing is, Alex is a fucking moron, and he didn't realize he was basically admitting to date raping her. People don't have zero conscious memory of a thing like sex happening the night before unless they were drugged, and based on the way she described the night (they were arguing until at least 4am about her drinking), it really sounds like he just entirely made up the sex just to mess with her, but it backfired because he once again failed to think of her as a person and didn't think about how she'd react to having sex she didn't remember having, which means either he's a monster that drugged her before raping her, or he's a weird little creep that makes shit up in order to punish people. I'm betting he's the latter, but Alex is too obsessed with his image to admit to any of it. He really put himself in an unbelievably shitty position because he's so much of a sadistic asshole and a dipshit, that he tried to shame his own girlfriend with a lie about the kind of sex she wanted to have with him.
Yeah, let's not with this. You're really gonna say a woman is lying because she didnt remember a traumatic thing?
 

Uzumaki Goku

Member
Oct 27, 2017
3,153
As mentioned earlier, I don’t like to condemn an entire community over the actions of a few. There are some legitimately great people within the Smash community. It’s just that there are also a handful of assholes like Alax.


Unless Alax actually admits to the allegations like Chris Niosi did, we probably won’t know for sure. But given what we know now as well as how Alax handled it, I personally wouldn’t bet on his innocence.
Speaking of Chris Niosi, there's apparently something involved with LittleKuriboh and TeamFourStar.

They may have enabled his behavior.
 

Daouzin

Member
Oct 28, 2017
458
Unsubscribed. Thanks for making this thread. Gamer related drama is killing me lately. Can we stop being terrible?
 
Oct 25, 2017
2,349
Apparently, I’m not sure about TeamFourStar, LittleKuriboh hasn’t done anything wrong necessarily but when Kirbopher and SuperPsyguy’s shit came out, LK didn’t say anything....
Odd.

Also if you remember anything regarding TFS, please say so. I really, really hope they didn't do any shit. But if they are, I'd really like to know.
 
Oct 25, 2017
2,349
All I know is that they’ve worked with him in the past.
Oh.

Well I mean, I know they also worked with TGWTG at one point, and then disowned them after everything that happened with that. They just (as far as I remember, correct me if I'm wrong) weren't outspoken about it. Although I understand your point about wanting everyone to speak out.

I just thought by enabling, you meant encouraging or assisting in the act.
 

Adam_Roman

Member
Oct 25, 2017
1,609
I've got an insane theory about the sexual assault that happened. According to her, she's got zero (ZERO) recollection of any sexual contact between them that night, which even if you're drunk, you would have some. She called a sexual assault hotline and they said if she had zero memory, she must have been roofied. I think what happened was that he wanted to "punish" her for being drunk and play this weird psychological game, so he told her they had sex that night where he claims she asked for embarrassing and degrading sex acts that made him uncomfortable (all of which he asked her to do for him later on btw even though he said it made him feel bad), so he could teach her a "lesson" about her poor behaviour in his view. But my theory is that he didn't roofie her or engaged in sexual contact, he just lied to make her feel bad because that's 90% of what he did in the relationship according to her.

The thing is, Alex is a fucking moron, and he didn't realize he was basically admitting to date raping her. People don't have zero conscious memory of a thing like sex happening the night before unless they were drugged, and based on the way she described the night (they were arguing until at least 4am about her drinking), it really sounds like he just entirely made up the sex just to mess with her, but it backfired because he once again failed to think of her as a person and didn't think about how she'd react to having sex she didn't remember having, which means either he's a monster that drugged her before raping her, or he's a weird little creep that makes shit up in order to punish people. I'm betting he's the latter, but Alex is too obsessed with his image to admit to any of it. He really put himself in an unbelievably shitty position because he's so much of a sadistic asshole and a dipshit, that he tried to shame his own girlfriend with a lie about the kind of sex she wanted to have with him.
While I think he's a manipulative piece of trash, I think the easiest explanation is the most likely. I'm sure she would be able to tell if they had sex the morning after and she didn't just take him saying that as the truth without questioning it. Especially since she said it's not something she'd do, it sounds like he took advantage of her while she was impaired, and used her blackout to fudge the details to try and plant the idea she wanted it after the fact.
 
Alax's friend, Alex Scott, made his account private after the tweet in the previous threadmark was brought to light

mkhashouf221

Member
Dec 5, 2018
170
one of the buddies of Alax seemed to have made his account private after his tweet got linked in here?
 
Last edited: