1) Can you just call it sex?
2) There isn't anything wrong with having a lot of sex after a breakup. Different people cope differently
3) Don't get a God damn vasetomy because you only envisioned having kids with one girl. That is both creepy and excessive
4) It's natural that 3 weeks after a relationship last just under 2 years you'll feel pretty hurt but the whole "I'll never love again" bit, like it's overly dramatic. And further more it's only going to hurt yourself and fuck up opportunities at real happiness with other women.
Just like, go party, have some fun, get laid and ditch some of the dramatization. I understand it hurts but your reaction to things is rather 0 to 100 here. How old are you?
Will all the meaningless sex be worth it in the end or is this just an unhealthy coping mechanism because you're not ready to take things seriously?
If you never want to ever have kids, I guess a vasectomy makes sense but seems a bit extreme where you're punishing yourself for why it didn't work out with your ex.
I'm saying a vasectomy because with her I really thought I was out of the being single game that I had reached the end goal.
Now it's not happening so getting a vasectomy would seem logical for me especially when I want to really start having lots of sex with different women and thus avoid getting one pregnant because that chance would certainly rise higher with different partners even though I always use rubbers. It only takes one mistake somewhere or a rubber ripping and bam I'm now stuck with a woman I don't want to be stuck with because of a child. Sure I could just be separated and take care of the child, but I don't want that for my kids to grow up like that. I still want kids but I want them to live in a happy household.
I'm 27. I just can't give all my love again I'm afraid. Hopefully like you say it will change but as of now currently I'm keeping my heart close to me and out of the reach of women for the time being of me going on a sex streak
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