So I met this girl at a friend's out of town wedding on Saturday night. Had an awesome time, we danced, etc. Got her phone number and we we started texting back and forth the next day. I asked if I could take her out, and she said she was working the next day but might get off early, and the following day was her dad's birthday but she was hoping she would be able to make it.
The following day was NYE but she was working some event, so got out off super late. The day after (Monday) we were texting and it sounded like we'd be able to meet for a little bit before my flight, which was late at night, but then she didn't answer for like an hour and a half, and when I pressed for a coffee date, she said her family had arrived from out of town and it didn't look like it was going to happen. At this point, I was pretty bummed.
We've been texting back and forth, and I'm not sure what to do. Like, I know this sounds like some high school shit, but I'm not sure she likes me and whether I should pursue. She lives about 350 miles away, which is an hour's flight, so the distance is a thing, but it's technically not that far.
Thing that pops out at me is that sometimes she takes a while to reply. Now, I know some people aren't on their phones all the time or whatever, but in my experience, lack of a timely reply usually means lack of interest. Then, there was the whole thing on Monday, where I think she could've made an hour to hang out, but didn't.
But we've been texting and sometimes I get the feeling she may be interested? I dunno. Like today, I mentioned something about how no one texts and she replied that yeah, she agrees, but she actually prefers phone calls. I was thinking of even calling her tonight, but I dunno, is that too desperate? Or too soon? I really like this girl, but don't want to force shit, if she's not into me...
