Dunno, man... I'm a minority, and I don't like being spoken for. Mostly because I've been speaking myself since forever, so I'd rather be listened. For example, I'm not black, but consider myself an ally. I don't assume I'm talking on behalf of black people when I talk about racism, but I will support their view when presented with it, and would stand up for racist whenever I can. However, if in my eagerness to help I crossed a boundary, and a black person told me what I'm doing is not okay, I don't think bragging about how much time I've have been an ally for, and how much I've spent trying to help the community is the right way to go. It is not like being an ally is hard if you are white, straight, cisgender, and rich. It is pretty much just being a decent human being, and that, on my view, should be the default. The basic standard. Not something you should get praised for. Certainly not something that gives you the right to ignore the people trying to teach you something, and instead play the victim.