So there is this girl at my work her name is bailey. Well I've been telling my second best friend about her for like 3 months about how cute she is and all that stuff. I talk to her but she has a boyfriend so I don't flirt or anything. Well they break up and she starts dating people again.
I'm very slow with girls and it's something I'm getting over but I always get so nervous. Getting some confidence by working out has helped this but still a little bad. Anyway about two weeks after she starts dating I get her number.
Well that same day my buddy Eric text me "hey bro bailey has been flirting with me over Facebook". Allright, thanks for the warning, thinking he was telling me this so that I know she is out looking for people. Nope then he messaged me "let the best man win". Well fuck you I think, I've been talking about Hailey for ever while you never seemed interested. Eric is a good looking guy so a lot of woman message him and try to get with him. While me I gotta work for it becuase I'm not 200 pounds of pure muscle and a lumber jack beard to top it off.
Anyway I don't work the next day but the day after that I see bailey at work. So I go and ask her if she would want to go to dinner on Friday. She say's "ya" then a couple seconds later " o wait actually I'm seeing a movie that day". Well she went on a date with Eric to that movie...
Now a week later their efficially dating. I saw both them at the gym and didn't say high becuase I'm pissed trying to act like I don't see them. He does the same thing then tells my buddy he saw me at the gym. So he know there is tension between us. He messages me saying he feels like an asshole and I say it's all good man. I still want to be friends with him becuase his one of my best friends, but then again I have never wanted to kick someone's ass so much in my life.
Anyway am I in the wrong or him. It's been 3 years since my last date so I really needed one but I feel like it was taken from my fingers... Also thank you for letting me rant :)
Edit: there is a lot of mysconsiptions in this thread. I don't feel like I was owed her. I dont feel like I was owned anything. I feel like a date was taken from me becuase she said yes but then said she remembered she had another date which good on her you know. I just really fucking wish one of them was me...
Edit 2: JESUS CRIST I don't think I owe her no where near that. I had a date plain and simple I could have went on one. This girl that's friends with her told me she would go on a date with me, it was going to habben. I should have asked for another night but I just caved and walked away let Eric have his chance at her. I'm more mad at myself then anything and that's why this whole situation has been on my mind the whole month and has really fucked up my vipes...
I'm very slow with girls and it's something I'm getting over but I always get so nervous. Getting some confidence by working out has helped this but still a little bad. Anyway about two weeks after she starts dating I get her number.
Well that same day my buddy Eric text me "hey bro bailey has been flirting with me over Facebook". Allright, thanks for the warning, thinking he was telling me this so that I know she is out looking for people. Nope then he messaged me "let the best man win". Well fuck you I think, I've been talking about Hailey for ever while you never seemed interested. Eric is a good looking guy so a lot of woman message him and try to get with him. While me I gotta work for it becuase I'm not 200 pounds of pure muscle and a lumber jack beard to top it off.
Anyway I don't work the next day but the day after that I see bailey at work. So I go and ask her if she would want to go to dinner on Friday. She say's "ya" then a couple seconds later " o wait actually I'm seeing a movie that day". Well she went on a date with Eric to that movie...
Now a week later their efficially dating. I saw both them at the gym and didn't say high becuase I'm pissed trying to act like I don't see them. He does the same thing then tells my buddy he saw me at the gym. So he know there is tension between us. He messages me saying he feels like an asshole and I say it's all good man. I still want to be friends with him becuase his one of my best friends, but then again I have never wanted to kick someone's ass so much in my life.
Anyway am I in the wrong or him. It's been 3 years since my last date so I really needed one but I feel like it was taken from my fingers... Also thank you for letting me rant :)
Edit: there is a lot of mysconsiptions in this thread. I don't feel like I was owed her. I dont feel like I was owned anything. I feel like a date was taken from me becuase she said yes but then said she remembered she had another date which good on her you know. I just really fucking wish one of them was me...
Edit 2: JESUS CRIST I don't think I owe her no where near that. I had a date plain and simple I could have went on one. This girl that's friends with her told me she would go on a date with me, it was going to habben. I should have asked for another night but I just caved and walked away let Eric have his chance at her. I'm more mad at myself then anything and that's why this whole situation has been on my mind the whole month and has really fucked up my vipes...
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