You're being a baby, I'm not even going to read further than this.
this is about the OP still wanting to be friends with the dudeShe flirted with Eric. Is Eric supposed to say, "I like you, Hailey, and you like me, but OP liked you first and told me so I gotta be a bro and let you date him."
And then Hailey goes, "What about my feelings?"
Then Eric ends it with, "I can't do this to OP, just date him regardless of your feelings. Don't do anything you want, do what he wants."
I didn't say they did, I'm just giving suggestions. Any of those people would know OP better than people on this forum. And probably be better equipped to give advice.This sandpaper gets it done. I guess he sees me as an Eric.
How would a therapist have a complete view? How does a family member?
just try not to think about how they probably talk about how sorry they feel for you after fucking.
Yeah. It's not thinly vieled "woe is me" dating thread about a guy who didn't get the girl but the cooler, more confident, muscle man did. Like, there's a lot of nice guy language in the OP. People are ribbing on him because of that. He seems like a good sport about it all.this is about the OP still wanting to be friends with the dude
I'm just referencing another on-going thread and his trolling argument from earlier in the weekend. Just jokes.talking about other posters is shitty, especially ones who can't hear me, but bobo takes things... personally, in my experience. swell dude, i'm sure, and there's nothing wrong with posting passionately, but don't get scraped up by it or offended or anything
I mean, he made it pretty clear it's not like that.Op you're absolutely disgusting thinking you own this girl. People like you shouldn't be on Era.
Only salt.
So you would legit de-friend someone who slept with your sister? Sounds super controlling.
No. I concede. Playing poker is more physically taxing than any other sport.
Why is everyone calling the friend a dick? Maybe the friend and girl have a lot in common and didn't date her solely to piss OP off. Jesus Christ, you folks with that mentality.
I'm just referencing another on-going thread and his trolling argument from earlier in the weekend. Just jokes.
That's all. No malice at all.
i'm out of the loop on this but it's hilarious. my bad; carry on gentlemenNo. I concede. Playing poker is more physically taxing than any other sport.
But how many of us can say with a straight face it wouldn't bother us if a friend, an actual close friend, got with someone they knew you were interested in.I've never believed a friend should have the power to tell me who I can or cannot like. Feelings happen and are not for anyone to own. Thus I don't think your friend has done anything wrong. And as others have pointed out, you've never owned her, so nothing will be changing for you.
Phrasing.That's a messy situation not helped by the lack of honesty. If the friend explained everything as it went it might have been a bitter pill to swallow but I'm sure OP would have taken it on the chin.
Some of you just like hearing yourselves talk.
Well-spoken my assERA may be the most hostile place on the internet.
We're like liberal, well-spoken 4chan.