And finally, there is a pervasive belief through the forums that we should continue to place all of the pressure of the trans community on
Kyuuji any time an issue comes up. That she should have to be the one writing everything. And, quite frankly, that many users see trans opinions as a bit empty until she chimes in.
I love Kyuuji dearly. She has done everything possible to give us all a voice, and supports and encourages all of us in our endeavors. And she will always have my support as well. But she is not the only one willing or capable of speaking on these things. She has expressed discomfort in the past at being seen as one of 'the good ones', and more and more it becomes apparent that people within the forums view her as such. Choosing to see the rest of us as just troublemakers. If she ever wants to collaborate and work with people on anything at all, she is absolutely welcome to. None of us here would ever judge her for doing anything on our behalf, because we know how wonderful she is.
But I'm finding the undertones of trying to use Kyuuji for other messaging, in all honesty, rather wretched. It is absolutely not fair to thrust such things onto her. And, honestly, it upsets me to no small end that people would attempt to use her kindness as a means to try to quell the intensity the arguments that she herself fights for- in the sake of making them more palatable to those tired of hearing of them.