My mind is totally blown right now.
I got a text from my cousin's wife who Im pretty good friends with literally like an hour ago. We BBQ a few times together each summer as they are local and we used to actually work together as well. She did the unthinkable and looked at his phone apparently. She thought he was maybe messing around with another woman...
I guess he left his browser open to a hookup site and hes wearing a dress and identifies as trans and is wanting to hook up while shes out of town.
I wish she hadnt even confided this to me. I dont know what to think. I defriended him on Facebook because hes a very vocal Trump supporter and we have argued about gay marriage. Hes very against what he considers anything other than traditional marriage to the point I just couldnt talk to him anymore.
As Im sitting here, my phone has an unread message on it from her and I dont even want to read it. On one hand, Im very angry about this dual nature of his and I hope she dumps his ass, on the other, if he didnt have an extreme view that hes presenting to the world, Id tell her maybe she just needs to have a long conversation with him about this and figure it out.
I kinda just want to ghost both of them to be completely honest.
Would I be a bad person if I just tell her to leave me alone? The whole situation is uncomfortable to me.
I got a text from my cousin's wife who Im pretty good friends with literally like an hour ago. We BBQ a few times together each summer as they are local and we used to actually work together as well. She did the unthinkable and looked at his phone apparently. She thought he was maybe messing around with another woman...
I guess he left his browser open to a hookup site and hes wearing a dress and identifies as trans and is wanting to hook up while shes out of town.
I wish she hadnt even confided this to me. I dont know what to think. I defriended him on Facebook because hes a very vocal Trump supporter and we have argued about gay marriage. Hes very against what he considers anything other than traditional marriage to the point I just couldnt talk to him anymore.
As Im sitting here, my phone has an unread message on it from her and I dont even want to read it. On one hand, Im very angry about this dual nature of his and I hope she dumps his ass, on the other, if he didnt have an extreme view that hes presenting to the world, Id tell her maybe she just needs to have a long conversation with him about this and figure it out.
I kinda just want to ghost both of them to be completely honest.
Would I be a bad person if I just tell her to leave me alone? The whole situation is uncomfortable to me.