Is it actually transphobic to say that there is a physical difference between post-op, surgery made genitalia and natural-born genitalia? Because I was banned for that once. Honest question.
What does that have to do with this thread?
Is it actually transphobic to say that there is a physical difference between post-op, surgery made genitalia and natural-born genitalia? Because I was banned for that once. Honest question.
And I stand by it. Women trash public toilets worse than men do and its not even close.
Nothing. Someone earlier asked whether something was transphobic and I wanted to ask too.
Is it actually transphobic to say that there is a physical difference between post-op, surgery made genitalia and natural-born genitalia? Because I was banned for that once. Honest question.
Again who the hell was I lecturing? Please tell me. I'd love to hear it because I'm sure as hell not here to lecture anybody and I take umbrage with the suggestion that I am. Please stop that.
It's really not, transphobia is not tolerated.Also that guy that got banned on the first page for transphobia for a week was a Ridiculous overreaction :/
Maybe ask here instead of derailing this thread:Nothing. Someone earlier asked whether something was transphobic and I wanted to ask too.
Fair enough! I should have wrote that as "recognizing that cisgender and transgender women have had different experience."
Aight, that's cool.
Again who the hell was I lecturing? Please tell me. I'd love to hear it because I'm sure as hell not here to lecture anybody and I take umbrage with the suggestion that I am. Please stop that.
Offering people some friendly suggestions about how to deal with something (the negative aspects of human nature) that literally everybody in the history of ever living has had trouble with is annoying? The fact that you feel that way is really sad. Listen man, maybe I was out of line trying to offer some mediation tips, but the truth is we all have a fucking responsibility to this planet and I'm tired of feeling like I'm the only person who give a shit.
Offering people some friendly suggestions about how to deal with something (the negative aspects of human nature) that literally everybody in the history of ever living has had trouble with is annoying? The fact that you feel that way is really sad. Listen man, maybe I was out of line trying to offer some mediation tips, but the truth is we all have a fucking responsibility to this planet and I'm tired of feeling like I'm the only person who gives a shit. We're not helpless and we can do something about it if we just try.
Is it actually transphobic to say that there is a physical difference between post-op, surgery made genitalia and natural-born genitalia? Because I was banned for that once. Honest question.
Why did you backquote it again? Yes, the way you act in trans threads is annoying. Its all tone policing and trying to explain how we're doing things wrong. If you really care about your responsibility to the planet, then take a good hard long look at yourself and ask why you're saying all of this to the people actually affected by what transphobic people say. Why aren't you engaging with the transphobes at all? How does that come off to you that you're the only person who cares, when you're not actually doing anything about the problem yourself?
I've only ever seen you argue against trans people in these threads. Maybe you're doing something else in real life, but I'm not seeing what you're doing here that makes you feel that way.
He probably doesnt know how to look up basic medical questionsWhat's the point of this? What are you implying with this? Or you're just "asking questions"?
I back-quote to shorten the thread count. I said all I really wanted to say, but you all have more things you want to discuss with me so I'm obliging.
As for everyone else, yes I do engage with them. I talk to everybody . And the ones stepping out of line here got banned. So now I'm talking to you all.
If you want to continue talking about this, PM me. But seriously I'm just trying to do what I think is the right thing to do based off what I see people doing.
Unless I'm wrong and misunderstanding the thought process behind the earlier bans, it seems like the idea that cisgender women and transgender women should not be considered one and the same and assumed to have had the same experiences is being treated as "transphobic."
Cool, will do.What you thought was the right thing to do was pointlessly annoying people who already had to deal with transphobia by telling them it was good, actually, that they had to deal with it and they should keep dealing with it instead of having fun like everyone who doesn't have to deal with it. Please reconsider doing this in the future. If you really have to do the right thing by posting, please bother the transphobes instead and tell them how what they're doing disrupts trans people's ability to discuss literally anything else. That would actually be more productive for communication online than being bizarrely concerned that trans people somehow do not deal with enough shit offline such that they should deal with more online to prepare them.
Also, shortening the post count does not save help the planet either and even if it somehow did, you probably still shouldn't do it when someone asked you not to. It's needlessly confusing for following discussions and does not notify the person you're quoting as well.
You cause more negativity and hurt. That's what your bizarre derailings do. You hurt.
If you havent noticed, people tend to go into threads on Resetera to just repeat the same sentiments over and over again. That's a positive feedback loop, if you're having positive feedback loops about negative things that's actually harmful for the individuals within that group. I just want people to realize that for themselves so they can make positive changes.
I just dont want you all to get hurt.
Is it actually transphobic to say that there is a physical difference between post-op, surgery made genitalia and natural-born genitalia? Because I was banned for that once. Honest question.
Cool, will do.
And that's why I backquote, cause I'm really not trying to derail this thread, but y'all keep insisting I'm trying to do something I'm not because we have fundamental misunderstandings of each other. I would rather they be faced and fixed rather than left to sit and fester.
You have not really faced or fixed anything based on the criticism or questions directed at you, though?
I do not think we are misunderstanding you, we just strongly disagree with you and find your posts frustrating at best. On the other hand, I do not understand what you think of us or our responses based on what you post, so I would say it is probably accurate that you are misunderstanding us. I am not sure how that can be fixed when you came into this with the misguided and patronizing intent of saving people from themselves when they did not ask for your help.
What would even be disagreeing about? You might be frustrated with me but that doesnt even me we disagree on something though.
As for being patronizing, well hey I'm a leftist. We tend to get accused that too. Sue me.
Please elaborateI really think people are looking far too into this in search of something that isn't there.
Damn. Between this and everything going on with Dumbledore in Fantastic Beasts, my opinion of JK is drastically going down.
What would even be disagreeing about? You might be frustrated with me but that doesnt even me we disagree on something though.
As for being patronizing, well hey I'm a leftist. We tend to get accused that too. Sue me.
Well, picture a woman who makes her work progressive post-competion, pats herself on the back for it rousingly, and then is forced to actually write in those progressive themes.
Do you A) Shut up and do it, or B) Act as if it's irrelevant and ignore it quietly
No prizes for guessing correctly.
Anyone expecting a 52 year old to be as progressive as we are on modern issues like trans rights is looking to be disappointed.
You can't separate art from the artist. It's easier, sure, but it's dishonest. Buying their art is putting money in their pockets and so you support them. If you don't agree with their thoughts and ideas, you shouldn't buy their art. You can't really get around it, sorry.Just do what I do.
Separate art from artist. Its easier that way. Then you are able to enjoy things without having to worry about if the people involved are shitty people or not.
FDR, Einstein, Hawking's....Except dead ones.
Like Bob Ross, Fred Rogers, or Abraham Lincoln. All fine heroes.
I hope you're not suggesting that she did what you said on B because that's blatantly untrue.Well, picture a woman who makes her work progressive post-competion, pats herself on the back for it rousingly, and then is forced to actually write in those progressive themes.
Do you A) Shut up and do it, or B) Act as if it's irrelevant and ignore it quietly
No prizes for guessing correctly.
Sure I can.You can't separate art from the artist. It's easier, sure, but it's dishonest. Buying their art is putting money in their pockets and so you support them. If you don't agree with their thoughts and ideas, you shouldn't buy their art. You can't really get around it, sorry.
This is true. And large segments of society can decide they don't like racists, sexists, homophobes, and transphobes. You can't stop people from being hateful shitbirds, and you can't stop other people for making them pay for it socially.
I tried to tell people this a few months ago on here but some poopoo'd me and said I was putting a slant on it.
1. As far as the transphobia goes, she follows several transphobic politicians and columnists and has gone on to retweet and favorite posts that are extremely suspect to say the least
2. She's vocally against leftists in Britain and has been criticizing the Labour Party for 2 years because of their shift to anti-austerity from pro-busness; she literally copies and pastes smear campaigns out of Britain's right wing news
3.Pro-Syria bombing by the UK and criticized people for opposing it
4. Iraq War apologist
5. People asked her to join the BDS movement, she said she wasn't going to put stated she didn't like the Israeli government. Now she believes any criticism of Israel is anti-semetic.
6. Equated Corbyn to Farage
7. Called socialists fascists when the left wasn't sold on the idea of voting for Macron
Yeah that's how I feel as well.It seems a tenous link, and she seems pretty progressive and tolerant so I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. Her feed is a cacophony of promoting racial diversity causes, down syndrome awareness, anti-Russia themes, anti-troll, anti-data harvesting, depression awareness, and yet I am to believe she's transphonic because she liked a contextually-barren tweet a few times? Nah.
I don't think those dots connect how some people in here say they do.
It seems a tenous link, and she seems pretty progressive and tolerant so I'm willing to give her the benefit of the doubt. Her feed is a cacophony of promoting racial diversity causes, down syndrome awareness, anti-Russia themes, anti-troll, anti-data harvesting, depression awareness, and yet I am to believe she's transphonic because she liked a contextually-barren tweet a few times? Nah.
I don't think those dots connect how some people in here say they do.
She sounds like a terrible person.
Suddenly I'm ok with missing the Harry Potter craze while I was young.
How does supporting any of that prevent her from being transphobic?
Very irritating. I do to the work of finding links proving all the points I made in this thread (that she opposed transphobia before, that she didn't ignore Dumbledore's sexuality) but all a hater has to do is list a bunch of BS and people with an axe to grind believe without question.Why are you people so willing to believe this stuff without proper investigation? I googled three of his assertions and they are basless and misconstrued.