I'm convinced the slate relationship advice column is fake but it's bonkers every week.
I think the advice is good from the writers perspective. He can't change the insane demand by his daughter to disavow access to his grandchild unless he gives her his house, that's ridiculous. He can only control himself and getting a will and putting his wishes in the will makes perfect sense. Can't change other peoples reactions to your choices. It's fucking wild to date your daughters friend and marry her but not that crazy, probably not all that unusual like, in the grand scheme of crazy relationships
There's very valid feelings. Daughter wants the house and is pissed at dad and friend. But that sort of ultimatum is fucking nuts from the daughter. Give me your house or never see your grandchildren again? Da fuq. The gall of the daughter not just to try to hold her kid hostage for a house, but also prevent her own child from having a relationship with their grandparents, esp if there's no abuse or illegality here. It'd still be weird as hell… esp when the friend starts acting like her kids grandmother…… that'd be awkward as fuck if the new bride tells the baby to call her Nana. 😂
I think dating someone 25 years younger than you or w/e is weird, I'd never do it because I'd dread having to put up with a 25 year old as a old fuck but not that crazy. The lines about remembering her as a teenager is weird, it doesn't mean he was lusting after a teenager. I remember a college roommate had an 12 year old sister when we started, Yknow, guys little sister, the baby, and then for his 30th bday party his little sister was in her 20s and pretty much every guy to a tee was like "… wait… that's your sister… wtf…" doesn't mean anybody was lusting after a 12 year old but we were all taken aback at the moment. Now… none of us married her so… that might change things….
This is average drama for slate advice column tho. Every week is gsngbusters.