No one said women don't sexualize men. You must understand that sexualization and objectification of women is grossly overproportional to how often it happens to men. It's a problem because it's used excessively and creates homogenization, it's not a problem in and of itself.
What you're saying (specifically in regards to video games) makes sense within an equal society, however, we do not live in that society. Most lead creatives, financial stakeholders and popular characters in gaming are males. When we talk about character sexualisation in video games it's pretty much always about female characters, because this primary happens to female characters (Shelob just got made into a sexy lady...SHELOB). Both sexes can sexualise and objectify, however, the power males wield in this industry (and how they chose to wield it) is what makes this an issue.
Yeah, I have to agree with that. I guess things will change once that more women enter the industry.
So your examples of male objectification in media comes from... porn media?
Um, no? Because Yaoi and Slash fiction don't necessarily have to be porn?