Man all this post-examination and post-scrutiny. I think the could have beens are interesting but that's as far as it goes for me.
The trilogy ended and while it was going, between TLJ and ROS I was torn because I felt TFA was such an obvious rehash and TLJ experimented too much and ROS was kinda dumb.
But looking back I enjoyed things in all 3 movies. It has become lionized for me. TFA had a ceremonious portrayal of OT members and TLJ took bold steps in all directions including some prequel era feel and brand new ideas, and ROS is a Blockbuster epic set in Star Wars with a cool final villain scene, interesting implication of Rey's heroism in spite of a negative inheritance and I found some of the dialogue entertaining. Kylo Ren was consistently appealing from beginning to end and honestly, I'm just looking forward to rewatching the Blu Rays.
I hope Disney can overlook the grief, the spite and outcries and just be optimistic about new films. Nothing good comes out of continued damage control.