This has been really messing me up.
Been dating someone for about two months now. Everything was going (I thought) swimmingly. They said they were super into me and wanted to keep getting to know me and me the same. Whenever we hung out I had a blast. They said the same and honestly sometimes it felt like they were way more into me than me them. I felt a lot of romantic and sexual chemistry. I'm not the type to fall for others but I could envision a future.
This is until the past two weeks and communication just completely stops. They've always been very busy with work (as have I) but there was always some form of communication between gaps in dates. Because we live in a world of social media I can see they are communicating with others but not with me..
They said we'd hang during the weekend, fine. Weekend rolls around and no message. At this point I'm bummed of always being the one to initiate, so I wait for them to. Once again, age of social media so I can see them out with their friends. I message Saturday night we need to talk. They actually message back and agree, say to wait for their text at a specific time Sunday.
Sunday rolls around and the time passes. Send a text asking what happened and no response. Ask to call in a few hours and do so and it goes to voicemail (voicemails full). Leave a text explaining I expect better and no response coming into the week.
Seriously what the fuck? For me if it's a matter of either (a) you just aren't into it anymore (b) you are too busy (c) you want to prioritize your friends over dating that's all fine and good but just God damn tell me so I'm not sitting here expecting plans and working around my own schedule for nothing. When you ghost someone all they are left with is their thoughts and it fucking sucks. I expect better from grown ass adults.
Been dating someone for about two months now. Everything was going (I thought) swimmingly. They said they were super into me and wanted to keep getting to know me and me the same. Whenever we hung out I had a blast. They said the same and honestly sometimes it felt like they were way more into me than me them. I felt a lot of romantic and sexual chemistry. I'm not the type to fall for others but I could envision a future.
This is until the past two weeks and communication just completely stops. They've always been very busy with work (as have I) but there was always some form of communication between gaps in dates. Because we live in a world of social media I can see they are communicating with others but not with me..
They said we'd hang during the weekend, fine. Weekend rolls around and no message. At this point I'm bummed of always being the one to initiate, so I wait for them to. Once again, age of social media so I can see them out with their friends. I message Saturday night we need to talk. They actually message back and agree, say to wait for their text at a specific time Sunday.
Sunday rolls around and the time passes. Send a text asking what happened and no response. Ask to call in a few hours and do so and it goes to voicemail (voicemails full). Leave a text explaining I expect better and no response coming into the week.
Seriously what the fuck? For me if it's a matter of either (a) you just aren't into it anymore (b) you are too busy (c) you want to prioritize your friends over dating that's all fine and good but just God damn tell me so I'm not sitting here expecting plans and working around my own schedule for nothing. When you ghost someone all they are left with is their thoughts and it fucking sucks. I expect better from grown ass adults.
