That definitely sounds awful, yeah.
Speaking of which, I was watching a Twitch streamer, usedpizza, play through case 2-3 of Phoenix Wright: Justice For All (Turnabout Big Top, the infamous circus case, which is most famous for just being generally regarded as a bad case in general), and I can't believe I didn't realize just how messed up the love triangle surrounding Regina Berry, the animal tamer, in that case is. As usedpizza did something most people don't seem to do when they play through the game, which is actually paying attention to the characters ages.
Regina herself is 16 according to the game. But on top of that, due to growing up in the circus and her father not having the heart to break her illusions, she has an extremely childlike view of the world, not really understanding the difference between reality and fiction/the "magic" of the circus at all (such as, not even understanding the difference between a ventriloquist's puppet and a real person), doesn't really understand what happens when people die, etc, and that characterization of her comes up at multiple points in the case. So she's both young regardless and is written even younger.
Now, over the course of the case, there are three particular characters who are said to be crushing on her at various points. These characters, and their respective ages, are:
Max Galactica, the defendant: 21
Bat: 22
Ben Woodman, the ventriloquist: 31(!), with this being the guy that was going to propose to her and everything that night if the circus's monkey didn't steal the ring he was planning to propose with. And of course, Ben's very aware that Regina seems to regard his puppet as actually being a separate person entirely and that she just sees him as someone who hangs around the puppet, but he just goes along with that and doesn't make any real attempts at correcting her, on top of not having any problems with proposing to someone half his age, especially one who's so childlike that she can't tell the difference between a puppet and a human.
And of course, Phoenix, Maya, and pretty much everyone treats that sequence of events pretty normally (with Phoenix himself being wooed briefly, when Regina asks him to find something she lost, and you get three dialogue choices, all variants of "of course" because Phoenix himself is smitten by her), with the only one that really raises an eyebrow about it being Acro, but of course, as it's revealed, the real reason Acro himself isn't head over heals for Regina is because he held her responsible for his brother falling into a coma, and nothing to actually do with how innocent she is or how messed up those relationships are, or anything.
Can't believe I didn't really think much about that or notice that 'til now, but yeah. Just one more reason the case sucks, I suppose.