These are the least offensive ways to say "I don't like this" that I've ever seen. Which is wild considering it's fucking Courtney Love. I don't really get the hostile responses.
And I mean, outside of Lana Del Rey, who I just don't follow in general so I don't get the problem she has with her, she's not really wrong with any of them. It's disingenuous to say that country music hasn't historically been hostile to black woman artists, so I get the point she's trying to make. Madonna is, well, whatever, her and Courtney's beef is old news. And there's so many more interesting and important artists than Taylor Swift (who's essentially just a remnant of pre-fragmented monoculture that aging white women hold up as an effigy to childhood formative experiences). In female fronted pop alone you have Charli, Rina, Let's Eat Grandma, PinkPantheress, Empress Of, Kesha, Billie Eilish... hell, even Adele, and Dua Lipa are more interesting from a raw talent perspective alone.
Try Bat For Lashes, Imogen Heap, Holiday Sidewinder (specifically the album Face of God), maybe even Björk? Not really to my taste usually so I can't go much further in depth, but I've skipped over so many songs that sound like the song you linked that they certainly aren't hard to come by.