Does this count as victim blaming? If you have never lied about your age on a website then I give you props for your honesty and integrity.
Nah, I meant nothing of the sort, and I do apologize if I made it seem like I was blaming you for your troubles with the site. Everything else you said was completely valid, and I do understand where you are coming from.
That being said, and again not picking on you, but rather speaking with my own mental health issues and depression that I have had in mind, places like that simply are not for the underage. I'd go as far as to say places that are arguably uncensored aren't for anyone without a certain level of mental well being and or growth that might even go past 18 for some.
Hell, not 4chan, but a certain community did make me depressed when I was around 20. My mindset wasn't there for it, and thus was a toxin to me. Like you and 4chan, I quit that place cold turkey and never went back. It's a bad feeling that I wouldn't wish on anyone, so I honestly do understand some of your scenario.