New title still doesn't really represent the article accurately, in my opinion.
The title implies that not wanting to date a trans woman while sleeping with one makes you insecure, which is seemingly a sex-negative attitude.
You should be able to have consensual sex with anyone you want without feeling obligated to commit. Sex isn't a pair of handcuffs.
The actual article is more about straight men who are ashamed of being interested in trans women. Which, while I agree is insecure, I also think in some cases is probably not 100% that person's fault. Society's enforcement of toxic masculinity is certainly a factor in some cases, and can be difficult to break out of for some.