If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
yup,
they probably know the other person better/they previously went to a function
If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
Nah, this is bullshit. I've always hated it when mutual friends invite either me or my partner to do something, but not both of us, and expect us both to show up.
We're individual people. If you want to hang out with me, ask. It's not like it's hard to turn "would you like to come to this thing" into "would you and your SO like to come to this thing" if you actually want both of them there.
Also OP, stay home and enjoy your time away from these assholes. Can't even be bothered to invite you specifically and then they're labeling you "quiet" just because you're not aggressively outgoing around some people that you don't know at all? Nah. Big yikes to be sure.
This.If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
Nah, this is bullshit. I've always hated it when mutual friends invite either me or my partner to do something, but not both of us, and expect us both to show up.
We're individual people. If you want to hang out with me, ask. It's not like it's hard to turn "would you like to come to this thing" into "would you and your SO like to come to this thing" if you actually want both of them there.
Also OP, stay home and enjoy your time away from these assholes. Can't even be bothered to invite you specifically and then they're labeling you "quiet" just because you're not aggressively outgoing around some people that you don't know at all? Nah. Big yikes to be sure.
This ^^^If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
Not very well, but I've hung out with them before (with my wife). Like I said I think they likely think I'm quiet and don't like them because I'm just an introverted guy around people I don't know. Which leads me to believe I'm not invited.
And whether or not I want to actually be there. Maybe? I would go if I were invited, but at this point I'm more put off to the whole thing and not going.
You are invited. Inviting your wife but excluding you on purpose is some passive aggressive shit and very awkward for your wife imo. It has to be implied.
Chill out. LolNah, this is bullshit. I've always hated it when mutual friends invite either me or my partner to do something, but not both of us, and expect us both to show up.
We're individual people. If you want to hang out with me, ask. It's not like it's hard to turn "would you like to come to this thing" into "would you and your SO like to come to this thing" if you actually want both of them there.
Also OP, stay home and enjoy your time away from these assholes. Can't even be bothered to invite you specifically and then they're labeling you "quiet" just because you're not aggressively outgoing around some people that you don't know at all? Nah. Big yikes to be sure.
There's nuance here. Yes, he's invited but they're hoping he actually doesn't come.
You guys are missing an important tidbit. Other spouses were explicitly invited while the OP wasn't.
Go buy the most expensive cheese plate at the cheapest store. Eat enough of it so its obvious from looking at it that some is missing. Walk into the party sucking on your fingers and smacking your lips exclaiming " mmmmmm that's some yummy in my tummy." Place the cheese plate centerpiece somewhere and make a big deal about how you brought it. Whenever someone tries to talk to you, clap your hands in front of their face.
Oh wow. Like, do you think they'd start whispering behind your back if you went saying, "I can't believe he came too!" Well, at least they will now whisper behind your back because you decided to not go to a party with your wife and play Sekiro instead. I'm sure whatever "quiet" remarks they have about you is going to intensify. Like, how do you expect your relationship with your wife's friends to improve? Do you ever want to be name dropped by them?This thread is surprisingly more 50/50 than I thought it would be. Glad others feel similarly to me here. Anyway, my wife just left, and I'm playing Sekiro. I will keep you all posted if I find anything out.
If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.
Yep, if you invite someone in a couple format the other party is immediately invited.If you don't want someone's SO at your party, you have to explicitly say it. Everyone's SO is implicitly invited.