Yeah, but show still goes with her still loving him despite her acknowledgement of Drogo raping her
Whatever the case, her love for Jon seems different. Very different. Almost like a possessive obsession with him. It just reinforces this idea that Jon is the most incredible manipulator of people that he could make a battle-hardened conqueror like Dany bend over backwards to accommodate him.
In fact, it's hard to find someone who didn't admire and like Jon. I think even Ramsay was a bit taken aback by how impressive and inspirational Jon was when they met. Even Alliser, although ideologically opposed to him until the end, seemed to come around and admit that he's a good man who is only doing what he thinks is right. Stannis, Mance, Dany... I think we've been taking for granted just how otherworldly his charisma is. At least, I had been.