6 feet, 6 inches, 6 figures as the saying goes right?
personally, After getting back into shape and having not been in a relationship for the last 22 years. This shit nowadays is a total dumpster fire. I'll gladly be alone for life, than deal with this clusterfuck called socialization in 2023 . I'm in the best shape of my life in my early 40s and making good money. I'd 100% rather play my steam backlog, self improve more, or do my hobbies like art and learning more programming than risk it all with another person. I'm out 👏. The funny thing is since I've decided this, I'm actually getting more interest… go figure 😂
It's probably because a.) you're more interesting now that you have a more diverse range of interests, and b.) when you meet women you're just viewing them and treating them as normal people instead of potential romantic partners. This is pretty much the entire key to the whole puzzle.
I know people are calling those of us who are anti-dating-app "boomers," but I haven't been single for more than a year since I was 19 (36 now, been with my current partner for almost nine years), and I honestly think I've been so successful because I've never met women while immediately and constantly holding mindset of "can this person be a viable girlfriend?" I just made friends with them like they were a normal person and then it turned into something more.
Also worth noting that I am definitely not attractive; I'm a touch overweight and very hairy, the two worst things I've been told a man can be. I'm tall. That's the only thing I have going for me, physically.