Ok well I'll be blunt too then – this is a shitty attitude. Your attitude bother me too. Literally insulting people while bemoaning being insulted. Do you not see this?
Not everyone is Extremely Online or super up-to-date on fast-sprawling forum metadrama that unfolds across multiple time zones. I read those threads, all of it. I have complicated thoughts on the matter. But none of that has to do with the simple fact that you're on a
forum, and people have
lives.
I also am tired of these super aggressive retorts that are imperiously declared to not be In Good Faith or "JAQing off" (yay! more insider buzz words to prove your cred!). You seem to think that we can achieve some perfect hermetically sealed moderation that even the mighty YouTube / Google, with all their money, have not figured out yet. And it reads in a way that strongly implies that you get to declare who is right and wrong. No matter what.
The argument is, "don't you know how much I've argued?! Don't you know how
tired I am of explaining my position??" To which I'd say, no. I don't know what threads you click, what else you read online, how laboriously you've constructed your clap back to your asshole bigot third cousin on FB. We. Don't. Know. It's nice if someone has followed along, but faulting someone for dropping into a 100 page thread without having full foreknowledge is insane. I'm not talking about starkly obvious hate speech or ridiculous drive-boy's – moderation has never really been a problem for these IMO. I'm talking about the crazy outsized responses to what
might be innocuous, if ignorant (not a sin) requests for clarification that are the norm more than the exception, in topics about social power or personal issues. It just spikes the conversation right into the fucking gutter instantly when this happens. God forbid you misuse transgender as transgendered – decapitation. Or ask what "folx" means in earnest. God forbid you open up about a personal issue you are struggling with in a thread – you have to be brave indeed. Unless it can be answered with a suicide hotline number, this place is simply not welcoming for vulnerabilities and that's on us. All of us. Not just the mods.
I keep seeing these demands for "accountability and transparency" over and over and while I have read some interesting
experiments that could be tried (the SomerhingAwful example), I don't believe there exists a mechanism or technical implementation to solve people. This is a culture problem. We need to be the forum we want to see, to paraphrase racist sexist skinhead Ghandhi.
I do appreciate the time you spend on these issues
Kyuuji but I feel like we all have a lot of work to do on tone control (me also), not just making increasingly abstract and impossible demands of the mods to "solve" human speech. It feels straight up imperious at times.